Mine…
Tip:
If you call yourself a “daddy dom” and there’s not a single loving/affectionate post on your blog, but a whole lotta rough sex?
You sir, are a tumblr dom… And at best, most certainly NOT a daddy.
Littles need love.
Tip:
If you call yourself a “daddy dom” and there’s not a single loving/affectionate post on your blog, but a whole lotta rough sex?
You sir, are a tumblr dom… And at best, most certainly NOT a daddy.
Littles need love.
FACT.
ACCURATE.
I just unfollowed one… Ugh
Tip:
If you call yourself a “daddy dom” and there’s not a single loving/affectionate post on your blog, but a whole lotta rough sex?
You sir, are a tumblr dom… And at best, most certainly NOT a daddy.
Littles need love.
FACT.
ACCURATE.
So as you can see from my lil description up top I have ptsd, that is a pretty big umbrella. To boil it down I have rape trauma syndrome.
My first “boyfriend” was abusive. He introduced me to the ddlg scene and it sounded perfect to me. I’m naturally submissive, have a need to please, will go out my way to do what you want how you want. But I need the love and affection too.
However that’s not what I got. He raped me on day one taking my virginity. I thought I had done something wrong and that’s how it was meant to be. I got no kisses no affection. Just brutality and violence. He insisted I moved in with him threatened hurting people I love if I didn’t so I did. Every day for 5 years I was raped and beaten. I know I blocked alot of the stuff out so I know I have more to discover. I found out at the beginning of July he was abusing my best friend too. He told her if she mentioned it to anyone he would harm me. neither of us had a clue that the other was being abused. 9th of July she tried to kill herself 14th of July we turned the life support off. She was gone. So now I’m alone. I have 2 children conceived by rape he tried to kill my youngest whilst I was pregnant and that’s how it all came out. He sexually abused my eldest when she was 3 months old. I feel like I’ve failed not protecting her from him. He would hang me with a corse rope round my neck and my toes just touching the floor I had to watch. I fought to get free but that only tightened. I wanted to just let go and hang myself but then she would have been alone. He would have done worse.
I went to court to testify he’s not allowed parole until he’s 86 so I’m safe till I’m 84. Great. If only the problem was solved.
So yes I do have issues. I’ve never had proper sex never been kissed 😳 never had all those firsts that girls now days seem to have in their early teens. I probably do ask too many questions I do hesitate but it’s not because I’m not being a good little or because I don’t want to do what you’ve asked. It’s because im scared I’ve done a lot of the hardcore stuff. Nobody had ever made me orgasm 😶
So yeah I just want to loved and be what you want. Sexual abuse does a hell of alot more damage than you think. I am broken but surely there’s someone who wants to put me back together? I’m currently shaking and feel really sick after telling you all that. The tears and making rivers.
But that’s why I am the way I amAnd I’ve just finished testifying against him again. Not letting this monster tear me down forever.
You join many of us victims of this brutal abuse … I applaud your openness. I cannot for one minute begin to detail my abuse I received.
Your daddy is out there, I know he is.
Until then…. Be strong and hang in there xx
I’m honestly appalled right now. All these people out there calling themselves a Daddy and they are treating their precious Little’s like they come second. No, wrong. Little’s always come first!
These are just a small portion of how in depth a Daddy/Little relationship can go. If you’re in a relationship where someone is claiming to be a Daddy and they don’t do these simple things then they are not a Daddy.
There are over 7 billion people in the world, plenty of fish in the sea. You are a precious Little, you’re beautiful, you’re adorable, and you deserve the best. Don’t forget that.
💖💖💖💖
@phantomtickler my daddy is all these things xx
You know what love is?
When you’re at work… And things are going hectic .. And the one thing that calms you down, is that one picture of her smiling..
You know what love is?
1:00 in the morning… You wake up.. And you look at your phone, to see that one text from her… And it soothes your soul…
You lay there and text her back.. That she is your angel..
You know what love is?
When your first thought of her.. And you text her… My Beautiful Angel…
You know what love is? The thought of her… She just popped in your mind, right at this second…
Her face looks so Beautiful. In your mind..
I know her face popped in mine, when I wrote this…
That is what Love is..
Will she know it? Maybe one day… She will know it… And feel it…
She will know what LOVE IS…
My love for her…
@phantomtickler one day x
Anonymous asked:
dapperdaddyworld-deactivated201 answered:
In my experience as an owner, yes you can. Little is entirely mine and I do love her. She’s my best friend, confidant, lover and my greatest pleasure. I’m sure you’d also like to hear it from the owned perspective, so Little, if you would please ? x
I’m a little too.. And yes this it totally possible. My daddy treats me with the respect and love needed as a partner in life and once in play mode he gives me all I need as a little.
This is totally possible .. Daddy?? Would you like to reply?? @phantomtickler
Anonymous asked:
dapperdaddyworld-deactivated201 answered:
In my experience as an owner, yes you can. Little is entirely mine and I do love her. She’s my best friend, confidant, lover and my greatest pleasure. I’m sure you’d also like to hear it from the owned perspective, so Little, if you would please ? x
I’m a little too.. And yes this it totally possible. My daddy treats me with the respect and love needed as a partner in life and once in play mode he gives me all I need as a little.
This is totally possible .. Daddy?? Would you like to reply?? @phantomtickler
simply put without feelings i don’t see how there can be the full trust needed for D/S relationship
Beautifully put daddy ❤️
Daddy: Princess I can’t share you with anyone. You’re all mine!
Little: *blushes* Daddy I-I’m the same way.. you’re mine and mine only! *cuddles into daddy’s lap*
Daddy: Awww. My cute little princess. I love you. *kisses me on the forhead*
Little: I love you lots too daddy~ ♥
(via kawaiicreativity)
This screamed us too daddy @phantomtickler
Anonymous asked:
lovemysub answered:
Hi there, Anon. I almost didn’t even dignify this with a response, but I think you’ve actually given me a good opportunity to say something that new doms need to know, so kudos to you.
First and foremost, let’s establish something right here and now: You don’t get to tell me what I am, and you are damn sure not the leading authority on what does and does not constitute a dominant. For the record, I didn’t wake up one day and decide to be a dom. I never even thought of myself that way until I met belovedsangi 10 years ago. I always had the characteristics of a dom, sure, but I didn’t ever put that title on myself. That title was given to me by my submissive. SHE is the one who wanted to call me Master, and Sir, and sometimes Daddy. I never told her to do these things. But of course, you probably think I am making my point for you and that if I were a REAL domly dom, I would’ve demanded those things.
And that’s where you have a fundamental issue understanding the meaning of the title. So let me help you with that.
A dom does not demand respect. He conducts himself in such a way as to be worthy of respect.
A dom does not bark commands. His presence is such that he can seduce and command with nothing more than a glance.
A dom does not raise his voice. He is the kind of man who gets what he wants without needing to.
A dom is not a braggart. He is possessed of a calm, quiet confidence that is evident in his demeanor, the way he walks, the tone of his voice, and all other aspects of him.
A dom understands balance. He knows that while a firm hand and discipline are critical in this type of relationship, knowing when to be gentle and understanding is every bit as important.
A dom is a gentleman first and foremost. That doesn’t necessarily mean that he is a fancy man who values the finer things in life, but he does understand manners and protocol. He opens the car door for her. He orders for her if she is having trouble deciding. He treats strangers with courtesy and respect.
A dom is a protector. He makes sure that his submissive feels safe and protected at all times. This means so much more than just telling her you will protect her. A dom shows her. He keeps a hand on her shoulder or on her waist in crowds so she doesn’t get nervous. He sleeps on the side of the bed closest to the door so that he is always between his submissive and an intruder. He walks on the side of the sidewalk closest to the street so that an errant vehicle will hit him before his submissive. If anything or anyone should threaten his submissive, he must be prepared to fight for her with the ferocity of an alpha wolf.
A dom earns her submission. It is not a thing to be demanded, expected, or assumed. And he continues to earn it, each and every day.
A dom values her submission. Fully submitting your will and trusting your body and well-being to someone takes a kind of strength most can’t imagine, and a dom never loses sight of that.
A dom understands that being a dominant is 10% privilege and 90% responsibility. He is literally taking her life into his hands. He is accepting the most sacred and important thing she has to give. He is taking her burdens and bearing them as his own, always, every day.
A dom is consistent. He understands that he can’t just be her protector, lover, confidant, master, etc. when he feels like it. There will be days when a dom is tired. There will be days when he is stressed. There will be days when he is broken. On those days, it is more important than ever for a dom to show his submissive that he is still everything she needs him to be.
So what does it mean, then, to be a dom? I get the feeling that you, anon, would say that it’s all about making her kneel, having your way with her, shouting orders and using her. Helpful hint: Any jackass can buy himself a whip and bark commands. That’s not a dom. Don’t get me wrong, I do absolutely have my way with belovedsangi. I love it when she kneels. I love the kinky, rough, mind-blowing sex we have. I love to dominate her in the bedroom. But for every moment of that, there are a hundred moments of holding her, of talking to her, laughing with her, gaming with her. There are a hundred moments of making her feel safe when she is afraid, giving her confidence when she is unsure, comforting her when she feels troubled. Those are all things that a dominant does too.
I love my submissive more than I love oxygen. I love my submissive with a fire that can never be extinguished. I value her and respect her in every way. I treat her like a queen and fuck her like a slave. These things don’t make me weak. They don’t make me less of a dominant. These things make me stronger than you can possibly imagine. There is nothing quite so formidable as a dominant who has found the perfect submissive to fuel his fire. Never will you see anyone love so strongly or fight so fiercely.
Bottom line, Anon, is this: you sound like a boy playing at being a man. You decided one day that you were sick of women having willpower and a voice of their own, so you decided to call yourself a dominant and seek out some weak-willed submissive who wouldn’t talk back to you or stick up for herself. You are not a dom. You are a jackass with a whip. Classic case of toodomforyou.
Always a reblog…
I agree….always a reblog
Applause …… Daddy what do you say to this jackass!? Whoops … Sorry i swored :-( @phantomtickler
